When You Expect

The number one cause of disappointment comes through expectations . Having a million rules and regulations that you have never followed . Now this extremely long list of expectations are standing right in your face .

Your expecting people to 

  1. Agree
  2. Respect you more than you respect yourself
  3.  Glorify you
  4. Fit your idea of who they should be
  5. Think your exact thoughts
  6. Immediately change


Now what has happen? You begin to become angry and frustrated with people that are unequal with your standards. Unable to view those same people in the same light feelings of resentment runs high. The obligations are created in your mind feeling as if their priorities have the wrong alignment. Incomprehensive of the patterns that you have illustrated for so many years questioning why didn’t this work out?  Only to realize it wasn’t ever applied to your own life in the correct way. Blinded from the selfish ways of the desperate need to fill avoid that only you can fix. So how do you resolve the issue of having this battle between what you feel and reality ?  I won’t this to really process  in your mind your life will change . Disappointment and staying bitter will leave when you learn how to Love Unconditionally !!O my goodness !! Don’t miss what I’m saying

You may say how in the world can I love people,who broken my heart through deceit and totally betrayal . Well You can if you won’t to sleep at night and have a clear conscious . Or you can allow it to haunt you forever this is serious, yes I know it cuts deep .!  View people through compassion and allow things to naturally come together . The most beautiful thing is when you can at least make amends with people. You don’t have to associate with them all the time but if you saw them saying Hey or seeing their face wouldn’t kill you. If for some reason that just can’t happen then let them walk away and pray for them . Accept the circumstances develop into your emotional maturity . Your amazing and wonderful individual so keep smiling don’t change.  I hope this helped in some way have a bless day! 🙂

But I say unto you , Love your enemies , bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you”

Matthew 5:44


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3 thoughts on “When You Expect

  1. Some excellent thoughts to share here, Eri. I’m back from vacation now and trying to get caught up so I wanted to stop in and read…Hope all is good with you!

    Steve 🙂

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      • Well, as a matter of fact, I did enjoy the vacation quite a bit. The trees and the ocean, the hills and the small towns, and the new sites and shops, food joints, motels, it was all good! I’m glad to hear you are good, Eri!


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